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Children are the most precious things in this world. If you are blessed, it means you have happiness and blessing in your house . By playing with children, a person forgets all his troubles and worries. Children are like a blooming rose and a breath of fresh air.
Human psychology is multifaceted. A woman’s psychology is different from a man’s psychology, a youth’s psychology is different from an old person’s psychology, and among all these psychology, children’s psychology is the most unique. Now the question arises of,
How should we understand the psychology of children and how psychology affects the education and upbringing of children ?
When a two-year-old child starts walking, he looks around.
Do you know why?
So that the people around encourage him, the child is two years old or four years old, he wants to choose the clothes of his own and he or she always attracts towards colors. The color that he likes, he is happy wearing that color shoes, and clothes, claps with two hands in happiness, or smiles, eat his favorite fruits, and plays with favorite toys, he or she expresses himself in the same way in everything. A four-years-old child wants to receive regular praise for his every action beyond this process. Pay attention to all his qualities.
If Edison’s mother had told him when he got kicked out of school that the school said your child couldn’t learn any more, then Edison wouldn’t have invented the light bulb.
Therefore, do not scold children for their mistakes harshly, encourage them in good deeds so that their personality can improve, and teach them to give charity. As a muslim i advise my reader that after the dawn prayer should teach the children how to give charity? A Muslim child should know how a Muslim starts his day.
Appreciate small tasks. Let them do their small tasks. Don’t scare children, don’t scold them in front of everyone, and leave them free in their small decisions so that they can become independent and confident. They should make their own decisions so that their decision-making skills develop. Give time to children If you spend most of your time on mobile, how can your child learn anything else?Children have both negative and positive emotions. While creating a personality, try to suppress negative emotions, to suppress these negative emotions, take the support of his positive emotions, and attitudes so that positive attitudes can be prominent in his personality.
We often talk carelessly to children and give them bad names, calling them weak-minded and crazy. These things have a bad effect on their psyche. Words always play a huge role in human psychology.
Bad words and sentences lower a child’s confidence. Those childhood words are stored in the subconscious and we never understand at that time ,never realize the impact they will have in the future.
On the other hand, psychologists say that mental illnesses start at home. Do not call children inappropriate words and names, encourage them, welcome them with kind words, and do not scare them with ghosts and unexpected, unnecessary things. Elements of fear later turn into phobias or depression. Do not adopt a comparative approach between siblings, it will create negative emotions like hatred, and enmity in their personality. Sometimes parents don’t realize that they have sown seeds of hatred between their children by comparing two brothers or two sisters or siblings throughout their lives. Teach them to love so that in future they too can share love and play an important role in society.
Children always learn from actions, not words. If only words were the teacher, personalities would emerge, but along with words, the actions of parents are also important.
Don’t blame your child for doing bad things at school, tutoring, and elsewhere. While we are the ones who sow the seeds that are buried forever in their subconscious
Every time you lose control, yell or argue with someone, you’re showing your kids how people react when times get tough. Instead, show that you can calmly solve your problems.
When parents fight in front of their children, negative attitudes and negative thoughts develop in the children, thus their characters also become negative.
Do you know that ;
When a child lives in the mother’s womb for nine months, people think about how can he learn anything if he is not yet born.
No sir! A child becomes complete in a short period of three months and for the remaining six months he is trained inside the mother’s womb. The process of both physical and mental development starts from the mother’s womb. He learns everything that the mother does, whatever difficulty the mother is in, the child feels that difficulty. Have you ever thought about the personality that the mother does not like for nine months when the child comes out of the womb? If so, even the child does not like this person very much.
If the mother only reads the Quran and prays for nine months, then the child is also attracted to prayer and the Quran, in the same way, if the mother spends nine months only looking at mobile phones or watching TV, then the child also comes into this world. After that, he is drawn towards TV and mobile. The biggest thing is that when the child comes into this world, he recognizes the mother because he has spent nine months with the mother, nine months inside the mother’s womb. He has been brought up, but how does he recognize his father when he sees him, he has heard his father’s voice for nine months and heard the words of his parents.
remember! The process of developing a child’s personality begins in the womb. pay attention The child then enters the journey of boyhood